The Mind of a NON-Cheater Husband

Be not alarmed, Madam, on reading this post, by the apprehension of its containing any political rhetoric.  The following excerpt featuring President Donald Trump and former FBI Director James Comey is used merely as the gateway to demonstrate how a non-cheating husband thinks about the possibility of being accused of cheating. In first excerpts of…

Doctor Foster

If you have been cheated on, you should watch Doctor Foster.   The first season was a bit triggering.  The second series is now available on Netflix, and it is two years later.  So far in the first episode, the ex-husband is as much as a cheating prick as before.  He comes back from being away…

Shit

  On the Today show this morning, the topic of driving while texting came up and the story covered how people who text and/or use cell phones while driving are 8 times more likely to cause a crash.  You know what I say? These people are selfish horrible human beings.  Nothing is on that damn…

Breadwinners and Power, Control, and Entitlement

As a divorcing woman, I can honestly say I am in no position to think about men, –not dating them, not having sex with them, nothing. I’m quite sure it’s projection, but when I see men in public, I roll my eyes when I believe that they think that I’m interested in talking to them….

Rage Day

What the hell does he have to be so angry about?  He cheated.  He knew the rules from day one.  We went to pre-martial counseling.  We took the personality tests and did the harmonious relationship comparisons and everything they had at the time to determine if we would be a successful marriage.  If he feigned…

What Your Husband Told the Homewrecker

If you are easily embarrassed, you should brace yourself at the thought of what your husband has told his whore, the homewrecker. He has told his whore every little inconsequential detail and mannerism of yours and he does it with a poor pitiful, “look what I had to put up” angle. Nothing that you shared…

Red Flags

Infidelity dialogue usually always includes the topic of missed red flags.   I know I talk about the warnings I missed.  I can’t stop.  I don’t know why.  It has to be part of the recover process.  Why else would I return to the red flags over and over again? Indulgence?  Glutton for punishment? Or, on…