Most Homewreckers Are Village Bicycles

It can be difficult after being uprooted and financially abandoned in a strange land. There are no long-term friends that you can turn to in a crisis. The ease of familiarity of place and time is not at your liberty. There can be some drawbacks with being too familiar however, some major drawbacks. Often, those…

Homewreckers Play a Mug’s Game

mug: British Slang. a gullible person; dupe; fool. On the emotional position of being the other woman, and why to avoid it…….the homewrecker says: “Did I know what a mug’s game was before I got involved with a married man? – No.” “A mug’s game,” she told me, “is ripping your knees raw and breaking…

“So Much Wasted Time”

Supposedly, David Cassidy’s last words were ,“So much wasted time.” I feel time, acutely.  Every minute of every hour of every day, I worry about the time.  I worry if I did enough each hour to prepare each day for the day that we can move forward.  I worry if I did enough each day…

Worst Grandpa EVER! Shouldn’t Be Able to Vote

As I continue to purge the house to get ready to move, periodically I find little items that help me exercise my rage. I chucked the mug in the picture out the back door. Initially it didn’t break so I had to keep rage-throwing it to the very back of the lot until it was…

Homewrecker’s Benevolence

This home wrecking whore is so benevolent that she decided to send her secret into Post Secret instead of sending it to the wife. When I read the card, my first reaction was to roll my eyes and spit out, “How benevolent!” When you right click to save the photo, the title of the postcard…

Resolve

Fuckface and his whore stalked the internet every day for hours during the last twelve months hoping to find any little nugget that he could use against me in our divorce trial.  Therefore, I had to stay quiet for a bit to make sure they were not sniffing around here.  Turns out, they were not. …

Charity Shop

Unbelievable! The home wrecking whore’s mother owns and runs a charity shop that is supposedly for the benefit of underprivileged children. You cannot make this stuff up! The whore, who was complicit in aiding and abetting the cheater grew up around her mother (and father), who for the last forty-five years peddled the necessity of…

Rage Day

What the hell does he have to be so angry about?  He cheated.  He knew the rules from day one.  We went to pre-martial counseling.  We took the personality tests and did the harmonious relationship comparisons and everything they had at the time to determine if we would be a successful marriage.  If he feigned…

With Love To My Wife

Back in May when I first started purging the house to get ready to move when the divorce is final, I stacked up all the birthday, Valentine’s Day, anniversary, etc. cards from the cheater that I had accumulated over the years. Most of them start with, “’To the love of my life’, ‘Dear Wife’, and…

What Your Husband Told the Homewrecker

If you are easily embarrassed, you should brace yourself at the thought of what your husband has told his whore, the homewrecker. He has told his whore every little inconsequential detail and mannerism of yours and he does it with a poor pitiful, “look what I had to put up” angle. Nothing that you shared…

Red Flags

Infidelity dialogue usually always includes the topic of missed red flags.   I know I talk about the warnings I missed.  I can’t stop.  I don’t know why.  It has to be part of the recover process.  Why else would I return to the red flags over and over again? Indulgence?  Glutton for punishment? Or, on…

Comeuppance and Scalp Picking

No one gets through a divorce from cheating unscathed, I know this and I have to believe this even when I don’t ever see the damage done to the guilty parties. Supposedly, one day the Cheater will wake up and realize he is broke, alone, drunk, and dying of lung cancer. When the taxman and…