Master Siphon

When I find myself drifting into believing that the Fuckface cheater and skank whore will have a happily ever after, I remind myself that this is the very man who habitually misdirected and blundered every two-car parade he was assigned grand marshal. And this is the woman, who has been married and divorced three times,…

Shit Situation

“I don’t want to be viewed as a victim,” she says, “because I don’t think I am. I am a woman in a shit situation, but it’s not unique.” ……………”I’m a woman in a shit situation, but it’s not unique.” Tell me about it.

Doctor Foster

If you have been cheated on, you should watch Doctor Foster.   The first season was a bit triggering.  The second series is now available on Netflix, and it is two years later.  So far in the first episode, the ex-husband is as much as a cheating prick as before.  He comes back from being away…

All Is Not Fair With Infidelity

I hate how needy I can be.  I also hate the blatant sexism that I see on “Infidelity” blogs.  Of course women can and have been cheaters.  However, I’m willing to bet that more men are cheaters than women are.  What makes it even more devastating is how more men are the breadwinners, thus, leaving…

Apartment Living

Now that we (the children and I) are out of the house that my ex-husband chose and bought (without any of my input), we are living in an apartment.  An apartment miles and miles and miles away from him, his whore, and his toxic family.  According to Realtor.com and Zillow, that house is 3500 square…

Adulterer Tax

For many people 42 means the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything else.  That is, if you are a fan of the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. To others, it is the amount of the Visa gift card given to a sidelined teenage-son from an insensitive asshole.   How or why would the amount be…

Most Homewreckers Are Village Bicycles

It can be difficult after being uprooted and financially abandoned in a strange land. There are no long-term friends that you can turn to in a crisis. The ease of familiarity of place and time is not at your liberty. There can be some drawbacks with being too familiar however, some major drawbacks. Often, those…

Homewreckers Play a Mug’s Game

mug: British Slang. a gullible person; dupe; fool. On the emotional position of being the other woman, and why to avoid it…….the homewrecker says: “Did I know what a mug’s game was before I got involved with a married man? – No.” “A mug’s game,” she told me, “is ripping your knees raw and breaking…

“So Much Wasted Time”

Supposedly, David Cassidy’s last words were ,“So much wasted time.” I feel time, acutely.  Every minute of every hour of every day, I worry about the time.  I worry if I did enough each hour to prepare each day for the day that we can move forward.  I worry if I did enough each day…