47 comments on the latest blog entry.
I have yet to see a woman in the infidelity blog world (who has been cheated on, other than Chump Lady) who has this level of following.
So many people, including ones who have been cheated on just can’t stay away from the nasty bastards, can they? If I’m going to metaphorically suck a dick, it ain’t going to be one attached to a known cheater.
He’s a cheat. CHEATER. CHEATER. CHEATER. FUCKING ASSHOLE.
His whining is nothing but attention-seeking whining.
Attention needs to be given to people who need it to heal, not to those who need it because they are use to having it.
It really is a man’s world. How many people really give a damn about the female (wives/mothers) victims? Don’t want to hear her stories, “Too depressing…..too real…..blah blah blah blah blah I’m really just a candied ass sexist asshole who really don’t give a fuck about the female perspective!” No, no one wants to hear a story that has become commonplace. It’s all, “Yada yada yada, woman grows older husband cheats…move on….Let’s not think of her, let’s explore the mind of the cheater……so so fascinating!”
If he loved his wife, truly loved her, he would divorce her (and provide for her) and let her have a new life without his cheating ass. Not cry about being nervous about triggering her. Because, if he hadn’t cheated he wouldn’t have to worry about triggering her. Poor him. No one know what he suffers!
Don’t come to my blog cheater, then follow it to attempt to lure me into your whining fest.
You have enough kiss-asses already following your stinky thoughts, I’m not the one.
I refuse to give shit, not even a passing glance to a known cheater. Mark me off the list.
“Oh yes, I totally understand the benefits of not getting tangled up in trying to untangle the skein of fuckupness, but I so totally want to see his perspective [A.K.A as an example of untangling the skein of fuckupness]. Or maybe I’m just a glutton for punishment!”
“Yes, yes, I understand the concept of ‘no contact’, but that only means ‘no contact’ with my cheater, it doesn’t mean ‘no contact’ with someone else’s cheater.” In which I would beg to differ. They all need to be no contact. Cheaters only flourish because there is some “kind and understanding” woman waiting to take on his shit.
Let them flounder! Don’t take in their stories. Don’t take in their children. Don’t take in their problems. Let them learn to sink or swim the way they have done to the women they have cheated on.