If you are easily embarrassed, you should brace yourself at the thought of what your husband has told his whore, the homewrecker. He has told his whore every little inconsequential detail and mannerism of yours and he does it with a poor pitiful, “look what I had to put up” angle. Nothing that you shared with your husband that happened to you as a child, that you’ve said or done that you may have lived to regret, no interaction with one of your family members, no little habit or unconscious tic is too insignificant or too private for your husband to reveal to his whore. Not only has he told her unflattering things about you, he will continue to bring stuff up. Each time he will put a twist on it that makes you appear more unhinged than whatever he brought up before. It’s what cheaters do to seduce allies. The whole time the whore is convinced he will never betray her in the same way. It’s as if she has some magic or way of dealing with him that you were not equipped with. That is how she convinces herself that she is special, superior.
If you want to limit the ammunition that he can cry to his whore about, you must maintain as little contact as possible. He will relay each text, email, phone conversation, or interaction in court to the whore as some significant drama that further demonstrates your instability and his heroic-victimization.
He is a horrible person. Good husbands do not cheat. Good husbands communicate to their wives about their marriage. Good husband do not triangulate.
My husband’s whore proudly stood up in court and said that my husband gives her everything about us (me and the children). If he has to go to court, as soon as he is done, he sends her all the documentation. If we (the court) didn’t believe it, she could show us on her phone (right there in court). When my attorney asked her if she had our medical records and everything else, she said, “Yes!”
She offered it up as if she had glitter amongst the chicken-feed.
Witchcraft’s information is genuine! It’s been gold!
It’s just enough glitter amongst the chicken-feed. Control didn’t believe in miracles, and he didn’t believe in Witchcraft. But you were lazy, and you were greedy, and so you forced him out of the Circus and you let Karla in.
Of course, this is a 180 reversal on how he handled/shared things with me. For 20 years nothing was ever shared with me. One time when he came back from the DMV to register our vehicles, I asked him how it went, and his mother (who was over) sneered and griped about how I ask him too many questions. It’s a typical narcissist move to rope the whore and mother in by sharing. I am sure the whore expressed some little tidbit about wanting to be involved and helping and he ran with it. Whereas I tried to give him space and treated him like a responsible adult. I would ask questions (that I seldom got answers to) but it was never my job to replace his domineering mother.
When you feel yourself giving in to his demands during the divorce, you need to remember his betrayal. You need to remember how he shared everything he possibly could to his whore.
His behavior does not deserve consideration when it comes to a settlement. If he has to henceforth live on half of his income, so bit it, it was of his own making.
The whore can supplement since she was so eager to supplement during the marriage.
What did your husband tell his whore about you?