Fireflies

Last night my daughter and I walked to the mailbox, it was around 9:30 PM. I wanted to show her the long way around that I usually walk in the mornings that takes me to a view of a blue heron that is usually fishing for its breakfast. It hasn’t been there in the last…

Master Siphon

When I find myself drifting into believing that the Fuckface cheater and skank whore will have a happily ever after, I remind myself that this is the very man who habitually misdirected and blundered every two-car parade he was assigned grand marshal. And this is the woman, who has been married and divorced three times,…

Shit Situation

“I don’t want to be viewed as a victim,” she says, “because I don’t think I am. I am a woman in a shit situation, but it’s not unique.” ……………”I’m a woman in a shit situation, but it’s not unique.” Tell me about it.

The Mind of a NON-Cheater Husband

Be not alarmed, Madam, on reading this post, by the apprehension of its containing any political rhetoric.  The following excerpt featuring President Donald Trump and former FBI Director James Comey is used merely as the gateway to demonstrate how a non-cheating husband thinks about the possibility of being accused of cheating. In first excerpts of…

Go Sit Down, Cheater!

Eric Greitens, current Missouri governor needs to go sit down somewhere. He is a cheater. Possible revenge-porn extraordinaire. Married to Sheena Elise Chestnut, current chump, and she was pregnant while he was cheating, cheating, cheating, cheating, and cheating. Currently, Greitens is double-dog daring anyone to hold him accountable because he doesn’t feel like what he did…

Boo Hoo!

47 comments on the latest blog entry. I have yet to see a woman in the infidelity blog world (who has been cheated on, other than Chump Lady) who has this level of following. So many people, including ones who have been cheated on just can’t stay away from the nasty bastards, can they?  If…

I Did Divorce Better Than You Did (or doing) Divorce.

In a series of recent experiments, we found that people who endured challenges in the past (like divorce or being skipped over for a promotion) were less likely to show compassion for someone facing the same struggle, compared with people with no experience in that particular situation. Bookmarking to unpack later.

Doctor Foster

If you have been cheated on, you should watch Doctor Foster.   The first season was a bit triggering.  The second series is now available on Netflix, and it is two years later.  So far in the first episode, the ex-husband is as much as a cheating prick as before.  He comes back from being away…

Shit

  On the Today show this morning, the topic of driving while texting came up and the story covered how people who text and/or use cell phones while driving are 8 times more likely to cause a crash.  You know what I say? These people are selfish horrible human beings.  Nothing is on that damn…

Maintaining Boundaries

This is called “taking care of yourself.”  What a savage. If you cannot read the tweet it says: “My sister just got in an argument with her boyfriend in HER car while driving home and literally pulled over…took the keys…left him in HER car and got an UBER.  I’m screaming.  this is the pinnacle of…